What Are Relationship Goals?
Often we see couples on social media or in person and admire some quality or qualities about them. Those highly esteemed couples are identified by some people as having something to be acquired or experienced in their own relationships.
The Twist
However, I realized it’s important for singles to establish and pursue their own relationship goals before choosing to enter into a committed relationship. This requires biblical reflection and introspection which may aid in preparing for a future relationship.
Know Your Creator
Lack of understanding of who your Creator is and having a consistent relationship with Him (God) can have a long-term effect on you and your future marriage in so many ways. *Chapter 1 of my book “Dating Potential” really spells this out.
Know Your Worth
Take time to understand how truly special and valuable you are in God’s sight. Knowing how valuable you are to God and, accepting His truth about you will help you recognize whether or not others around you value you as well. Especially while in a romantic relationship.
Don't Waste Time
Be prepared to talk about the things that matter. Having fun dialogue is important when getting to know someone. Yet, knowing what and how to discuss the matters that could impact a romantic relationship (that is possibly leading to marriage) in a timely manner is critical. Important matters need to be discussed upfront.
Don't Settle
Before entering a committed relationship be fully aware of which characteristics do and do not align with those of a biblical man or woman. Also, you should identify any other deal makers and breakers you have. With these things in mind, if the man or woman doesn’t align please save everyone their time.
Prepare For The "No"
Waiting to meet the right person to date and or marry can be difficult. While waiting, you may have opportunities to go on a hot date or even settle down with someone. Yet you quickly recognize you should say “no”. That’s okay! Be encouraged through discouragement, disappointment, or heartache. Your “yes” is worth the wait.
Some Final Thoughts
-You're not desperate
-Be patient
-Trust God
Selah